To be more attractive doesn’t need to cost you any money. Your goal of becoming more attractive can be made much easier by taking these tips and applying them in your own life.
What is Personality?
The personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique.
When we say that someone has a “good personality” we mean that they are likable, interesting and pleasant to be with.
Everyone wants to be attractive to others. To that end, having a good personality is vital – probably even more so than good looks.
In fact, approximately 85 percent of your success and happiness will be a result of how well you interact with others. Ultimately, it is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.
While we can only enhance our looks to a certain extent, we can improve our personality as much as we want. We can develop or integrate into our personalities any trait we deem fitting and agreeable.
1. Becoming a Better Conversationalist
When you know your interests, and are well versed in them, you will have more confidence to talk about them. Having more knowledge means that you can contribute more to the conversation. If you want people to listen to you, it is important that you are an impressive talker. It is not possible to know everything, and if you are good in making conversations, then you will be able to share your knowledge and learn from others as well.
2. Complement others:
If you see someone is looking great it is always good to compliment them, they will love you for that. It’s not only about dress this is valid for their exceptional victory, speech or any other quality which you admire the most.
3. Learn Important Social Skills
If you are only attractive on the outside, it will never be enough to move you forward in your career or help you in your closest relationships. For this reason, it is important to sharpen up your social skills. The more successful you are in the social areas of your life, the more self-confidence you will have.
4. Have an Opinion.
There is nothing more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with socially (unless you’re a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone’s perspective.
5. Stay Smart and Keep Cool
Have you ever heard the phrase, “Don’t let them see you sweat”?
Even if you are panicking on the inside during a stressful situation, try to keep cool on the outside. Remaining calm rather than falling apart or flying off the handle will make you appear more emotionally intelligent and balanced.
There are certainly people in your life with whom you can share your worries and anxiety, but in most situations that are stressful, it’s better to take a deep breath and try to remain calm.
6. Be original
The next very important point that should be kept in mind, during the personality development is to be original. It is the very famous saying that an original is always worth more than a copy, hence, one should always be what he or she is, rather than pretending what they are not. Each and every individual person on this earth is blessed with a unique property, and hence it is the duty of that particular individual to maintain or enhance that property. An individual should never try to copy or steal other’s personality. Also, it is very important that one should always try to adopt only the good habits from others.
7. Treat People With Respect
It is important that when you make promises to people, you fulfill them. Honesty and truthfulness are essential qualities for an effective and good personality. You can only earn respect and admiration of others if you extend the same feelings towards them. If you have integrity and respect, then your personality will shine among many others. Respect others and yourself so that you have an excellent life.
8. Your body language:
This is universally accepted that your body does 70% of talking and people will judge you by your gestures and not by your speaking. So you need to know what your body is conveying while you do the talking, is it sounds too offensive, aggressive or timid when you put your point across. People will judge you that do you have confidence to speak what you are saying, or your mind and mouth both are in different directions. Be watchful of your body and its signals that it is passing on to the listeners.
9. Be fun and see the humorous side of life.
Everyone enjoys the company of someone who makes them laugh or smile, so look for the humorous, quirky side in a situation – there always is one. Comic relief is a much welcome and needed diversion at times. When you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise dull or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attracted to you, not to mention grateful.
10. Have Integrity and treat people with respect.
Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing makes a person’s personality more attractive than integrity and respect – respect for others, as well as respect for yourself.
We humans have the power and ability to shape our personalities however we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all that we can be, we contribute to our own, as well as the happiness of others.